In this second episode of our series on Thanksgiving, we delve into the deep connection between thankfulness, how we interact with each other, and the ways that thanksgiving shapes a thriving, Christ-centered community. As we explore the teachings shared by Derek Bargatze and Jeff Sherrod, it becomes clear that thankfulness isn’t just a command from God—it’s a transformative practice that, when embraced, reshapes the way we engage with the world and one another. From the practical to the theological, this episode offers important insights into how we can cultivate true thankfulness in our everyday lives, and how it plays a vital role in creating authentic fellowship within our church community.
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1. Thankfulness as a Command and a Choice
Derek Bargatze opens our conversation with a passage from Colossians 3:15-17, where Paul encourages believers to let the peace of Christ rule in our hearts and to do everything in the name of Jesus, with thankfulness. Derek emphasizes that thankfulness isn’t just a passive feeling, but an active choice. It’s not a feeling that comes naturally to us, especially in the midst of conflict, struggle, or negativity. But it’s through intentionally choosing thankfulness that we begin to see our lives and relationships through the lens of God’s goodness and provision.
Thankfulness, Derek suggests, is a practice that counteracts negativity, which can otherwise cloud our perception and affect our relationships. When we’re quick to complain or focus on the negative, we miss the beauty and grace that’s right in front of us. In recognizing all that God has done, we’re able to shift our perspective and approach life with joy and peace, even amid difficult circumstances.
2. Thankfulness as a Heart Condition
One of the key theological insights shared in this episode is that thankfulness is a heart condition that must be cultivated. Jeff Sherrod takes us to Deuteronomy 26, where the Israelites are instructed to offer the first fruits of their labor as an act of thanksgiving. The passage reminds us that thankfulness is not merely a verbal expression, but also an action—giving thanks through our offerings and service to God.
This is where the Hebrew tradition of thanksgiving stands out: it’s deeply rooted in both words and actions. We see that true gratitude isn’t just about saying “thank you” or feeling thankful, but about living in such a way that our thankfulness is evident in how we act. The act of giving back to God is a natural response to His provision and care, and it’s something that continues to shape the identity of His people.
3. Living with Context: Shaping Our Perspective
Thankfulness, as discussed in this episode, also requires context. Jeff highlights how the Israelites were called to remember their history—not just the good parts, but also the struggles and difficulties they faced along the way. In Deuteronomy 26, they recall their father’s story of wandering and hardship, recognizing that even when things were uncertain or difficult, God’s hand had always been upon them.
This theme of context is important for us as well. Derek points out that we tend to lose sight of what we’re thankful for when we become accustomed to the blessings around us. When we take God’s provision for granted, we slip into a mindset of entitlement. But when we consciously reflect on where we’ve come from—both as individuals and as a community—we are reminded of God’s faithfulness and His constant presence in our lives. This practice of remembering helps us foster gratitude, even in challenging times.
4. Thankfulness in Relationships: Strengthening Community
Thankfulness has profound implications for our relationships, especially within the church. In his reflection on Colossians 3, Derek talks about how gratitude transforms our interactions with others. When we approach our relationships with a spirit of thankfulness, it changes the way we communicate and handle conflict. Instead of allowing negativity and misunderstandings to escalate, we can take a step back, express our appreciation for one another, and resolve issues with a spirit of peace and grace.
This perspective is especially important in the context of hospitality and fellowship. As Derek shares, when we express gratitude for the people in our lives—even in the midst of disagreement or tension—we open the door for healing and deeper connection. It’s not about ignoring problems or pretending everything is perfect, but about approaching one another with humility and a willingness to grow together in love.
5. The Role of Hospitality in Fostering Thankfulness
As we continue in our hospitality series, we see how the practice of thankfulness is directly tied to the way we welcome and care for others. Jeff reflects on how the ritual of offering first fruits in Deuteronomy 26 ties thankfulness to action—both in how we give back to God and how we serve others. This is a powerful reminder that hospitality, in its truest form, isn’t just about opening our homes to guests or hosting gatherings, but about creating an atmosphere of gratitude and service.
Hospitality is more than a social obligation; it’s a reflection of God’s love for us and His call for us to serve one another. As we welcome others into our lives, we demonstrate our thankfulness for the gifts God has given us, and we create opportunities for meaningful connection and growth.
6. The Challenge of Practicing Thankfulness
Finally, Derek and Jeff challenge us to be intentional in cultivating a spirit of thankfulness—not just in the big moments, but in the everyday interactions of life. Whether we’re facing conflict, celebrating victories, or enduring struggles, thankfulness is a choice that can shape our perspective and actions. As Derek shares, it’s easy to become cynical or negative, especially when we focus on what’s wrong or what’s missing. But by actively choosing thankfulness, we reframe our mindset and open ourselves up to the peace and joy that come from God.
As we move forward in our journey of faith, let’s commit to practicing thankfulness in all things. Let’s look for opportunities to reflect on God’s goodness, to speak words of gratitude, and to live in ways that honor Him. In doing so, we strengthen our community, build deeper relationships, and grow more fully into the people God has called us to be.
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